Like it or not, social media has given the unassuming kid a second
chance. Those that were once coerced to be introverted have now found a new
platform with which express themselves, and it’s one of the most beautiful
things I’ve ever seen. The beauty is that it’s inside, in the mind. People are now
publicising their thoughts for the world to see and everybody has the time to
give a damn. Back in school, the quirky kid with the shirt tucked in a little
too tightly never got a chance to put his message across freely, until
recently, and in such a vociferous manner.
So here we are, the geeks are finally getting the freaks in the most unprecedented
manner. But what’s the difference between the popular kids offline and the
popular one’s online? The mind. Sure, we have profile pictures, display
pictures and avatars, but what really gets the people going is your particular brand
of perspective on... everything really. A lot of popularity in the real world
is attributed to aesthetic appeal. You can’t even fault it, as Drake the philosopher
says “If you ain’t got it, you ain’t got, the theory is brilliant”. This is why
you can’t even be surprised that the most influential people offline are not heavily
invested online, because it dilutes their presence if their smarts don’t match
their appearance. In some cases, you get to see the inner workings of a troubled
mind, and it belongs to who you thought was always cool, calm and collected. Sometimes
you have the rare occurrence where the cool guy with street cred is also proficient
with the QWERTY keyboard. However, more often than not on social media, people
are attracted to a person’s intrinsic beauty rather than their outward
appearance.
A lot of talk, and sometimes stigma, circles around starting
relationships with people you meet online. I’m not entirely sure when meeting
people became so complicated that it became judged, but you can’t help but feel
connections with people that are on your wavelength. If you want to meet those
people, go for it. I think it beats befriending people purely on the basis of
being your friend’s friend. Online, people are a lot more open, direct and
free. They no longer have to worry about anyone invading their personal space
unless they invite them. People become so comfortable with each other that they
overshare or become emotionally invested in the most trivial matters.
Is making friendships or any kind of relationship online any less real
than making them at a house party, mall or back seat of a taxi? I certainly don’t
think so. Yes, we have catfish and people who pretend to be something they’re
not, but all these facades are dispelled by the first meeting. All the nerdy, awkward children are now
adored by the masses. In the marathon of life, they just got a second wind. By
association, it has filtered through to the real world. The cast of Big Bang
Theory is more likely to get laid than the cast of Blue Mountain State, whether
they are online or not. Smart is the new beautiful, yet still in the eye of the
beholder. Maybe I didn’t see this in the past thanks to my naivety and being
wet behind ears, or perhaps it was never mentioned out loud or posted all over
the internet, but people are less shallow than I thought. The playing fields
have been levelled in a way where jocks and mean girls are now required to
incorporate some level of depth in their personalities... or not, they can continue
to adorn the fashionable fabrics of misters Hardy, Abercrombie and Fitch.
One distinct disadvantage that has arisen since the advent of social
media is the level of judgement that has
increased at an exponential rate, as
was showcased after the ellipsis in the previous paragraph. Cyber bullies have
contributed to the suicides of several people that they never even met. This is
where a level of discretion needs to observed. If you take everything
seriously, you will have a very bad time. However, if something is repeated
often enough and convincingly enough, you will subconsciously take it to heart.
Either way, I’ve always thought suicide was for the emotionally bankrupt and
cowardice extremists. Just please, before you make any rash decisions, look at
the bigger picture.
No longer are people subjected to conduct themselves to the whims of the
genetically gifted few. Creativity within well articulated prose now has a relevant
place in the world. Never has it been so cool to be strange. This is the rise
of the planet of the geeks.